Embodying The Heart of Listening: A Relational Leadership Retreat for Facilitators, Guides, SpaceHolders, and Therapists

With Deborah Eden Tull

October 26 - 31, 2025

Book early and get $100.00 off listed prices. Offer valid until Apr 28, 2025.

Date and Time Details:
Check-in: 2-4pm on arrival day
Check-out:12pm on departure day
See a typical retreat schedule here.

Rideshare: To offer or coordinate rideshare to/from retreat, please visit this resource.

FAQ and Registration Agreements: here.

Cancellation Policy: here.

Is this your first retreat?: Read more about retreats at Big Bear Retreat Center.

Housing and all meals are included in the program fee.

    Open to both beginning and experienced practitioners.
    Registration for this retreat closes on October 12, 2025 at 11:59pm Pacific Time. If looking to join after this date, please inquire at guestservices@bigbearretreatcenter.org

    Listening to Life as it unfolds moment by moment is the essence of meditation. This is a restorative retreat based in deep embodied listening – to ourselves, the earth, one another, and the invisible realm. You will be among not only mindfulness and meditation facilitators, but all who work as changemakers with people in groups or one on one, and are ready for a deeper dive into relational and regenerative leadership.

    Many of us have been conditioned to focus first much on the need of our world as the basis for our work in the world, and this can lead to depletion; but on this retreat we will explore leadership from the inside out. Regenerative leadership has to include our whole self and begins with our willingness to commit even more deeply to our personal practice, the quality of our relationship with our self and our earth bodies, and the way of presence that we bring to every day and every interaction.

    Some of the questions we will explore are:

    • How does efforting less, surrendering, and relaxing into being rather than doing feed resilience and clarity as we guide?
    • How do we stay resourced as we support collective healing? How do we listen in a way that continually restores, rather than drains us?
    • What does it mean to show up naked and vulnerably, just as we are as leaders, rather than hiding in the role or conditioned expectations we falsely attach to leadership?

     

     

    Supported by a backdrop of silence and the natural world, this retreat will include sitting, walking, and movement meditation, relational mindfulness in dyads and small groups, compassionate inquiry, dharma talks, and deep time in nature to connect with the more-than-human and invisible realms.

     

    HEAR MORE ABOUT THIS PROGRAM AND TEACHERS

    This retreat center is by far the best one I have ever been to. Intimate setting, nestled in the mountains with gorgeous views and hiking trails. For a small retreat center, they attract top teachers!

     

    WHAT IS A RELATIONAL RETREAT?

    Mindfulness and nature-based Relational Retreats and Workshop Intensives at BBRC are a different style of retreat than a silent meditation retreat. They are more interactive while still holding similar themes of connection with self, each other, and nature. The intention is to cultivate a mindful awareness that can be integrated into our everyday lives. Read more here on what to expect and sample schedule.

     

    GENEROSITY

    Retreat Cost & Fees:
    More information coming soon.

     

    FEEL WELCOME AND INCLUDED: A PLACE TO BELONG

    Our intention is to be as accessible as we can, even in ways that we may not be aware of yet. We hope this is a space of inclusivity where people feel welcome and held. For us, it is a practice of consistent attunement, presence and care to our community. However you identify – race, gender, sexuality, disability, mental health, and so on – it is our wish to meet your needs for belonging.

    Please consider this about our environment:

    • The center is on a hill with outdoor walkways between dining, gathering, and residential spaces.
    • We are located at an elevation of 6,500 feet altitude in a ski town in the mountains of Southern California.
    • We experience weather of all four seasons.
    • We are located about 2 hours from Los Angeles and near 3 major airports. Learn more about getting here.
    • We have a commitment to everyone’s mobility needs. Please contact us about ADA accessibility.

    See our FAQs for more detailed information on accessibility to our campus and programs.

     

    SIMPLE YET COMFORTABLE, NESTLED IN NATURE

    Simple and elegant lodgings to support rest and renewal. Our rooms are uniquely designed to offer comfort, convenience, and simplicity. All of our cabins are surrounded by nature with forest sights and sounds. Lodgings are a short walk from spaces for dining and gathering. See a video tour of a cabin.

    Our Meditation Hall is spaciously designed to provide an atmosphere that feels deeply integrated with nature and the surrounding forest. The versatile space is conducive for meditation, movement, workshops, training, and other community gatherings.

    Food that nourishes to support healing, restoration, and community. Our organic and seasonally inspired menus feature creative and nourishing vegetarian meals, tailored to support meditative practices. We use fresh and locally-sourced ingredients when possible. Lunch is the most substantial meal of the day and dinner is lighter. Our indoor and outdoor dining hall is open 24/7 with self-service coffee, tea and healthy snack options.

     

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    HEAR MORE ABOUT BIG BEAR RETREAT CENTER

    Big Bear Retreat Center is exceptional in every way. The accommodations are outstanding, food exceptional, staff very responsive and helpful and the teachers are always so loving and knowledgeable. Just a top notch retreat experience!! – Sheila

    I love Big Bear Retreat Center. It’s my dharma home away from home. Everything about it – staff, teachers, food, accommodations, setting – is exceptional. A true gift to the community!!

    Big Bear Retreat Center is indeed a refuge. A safe space to open your heart. – Laura

     

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    About the Teacher

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    Deborah Eden Tull

    Deborah Eden Tull is a Zen meditation/mindfulness teacher, author, spiritual activist and sustainability educator. She spent seven years as a monastic at a silent Zen Monastery, and has been immersed in sustainable communities for 25 years. Eden’s teaching style is grounded in compassionate awareness, non-duality, mindful inquiry, and an unwavering commitment to personal transformation. She […]

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